We Are Not What We Think

I study my face in the mirror:

the lines like throughways

leading back to the places

where you & I

converge

I travel them wearily,

studying the landscape

for directional cues

to the places of myself

that come from you

The dust on the road settles like sediment

in the chambers of my heart,

where you’re buried so deep

you have turned to stone and

I try to dig you out

just to figure out

if it’s possible to change

what started everything,

if it’s possible to erode

the space you take up in my life,

there is so much grief inside of me now

that I don’t think any more could fit

so please don’t die

because even though you are already

dead to me

I can’t possibly stand

to lose anything else

If you’re a monster now

what

does

that

make

me?

I study my face in the mirror

wondering how much of you

is still inside of me

wondering which parts

belong to you

can it just be

the good ones?

When I think back on it all,

the only happy memories I have

are with you

but I don’t know if I can have them still

I don’t know if they still belong to me

I don’t know if they are allowed

like:

the time we camped for three weeks

at the base of the Sierras,

how we dug out a home amongst the firs,

how I had never known air that clean

or quiet that flat—

stretching out as far as the needles would lay,

I

watched her lay our clothes out on rocks

to dry in the sun, I

felt so close to you then,

in the depths of the alpine lake

looming love

above the totality

of the horizon

If you’re a monster now

were you always?

If you’re a monster now

weren’t you always?

If you’re a monster now

what does that make me?

If you’re a monster now

why

did you

make me?